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Why Do Some People Need to Be in Control?

Some people find uncertainty uncomfortable. Others seem almost unable to tolerate it. They want to know the plan. They want things done their way. They dislike surprises. They struggle to delegate. They may interfere in other people's decisions—not necessarily because they want power, but because uncertainty itself feels uncomfortable. So why do some people need…

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The Psychology of Identity: What Does the 1st House Represent?

The Psychology of Identity: What Does the 1st House Represent? Who are you? It sounds like a simple question. But try answering it without mentioning your job, relationship, family, achievements, appearance, nationality, beliefs or social roles. Suddenly, the question becomes much harder. Psychology has spent decades studying this problem: how human beings construct a sense…

Why Does Saturn Have Such a Strong Connection With Fear?

Why Does Saturn Have Such a Strong Connection With Fear? There is a reason Saturn has acquired such a powerful reputation in astrology. Mention Saturn, and people often think of delay, restriction, loneliness, responsibility, punishment—and above all, fear. But what if Saturn's connection with fear is not really about punishment? What if it is about…

Why Do We Want People More When They Start Pulling Away?

Why Do We Want People More When They Start Pulling Away? There is a strange paradox in attraction. Someone is available. They respond quickly. They show interest. They make their feelings relatively clear. And somehow, you don't feel quite as consumed by them. Then they become distant. Their replies become slower. Their attention becomes uncertain.…